"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I found this site a few years ago. I wish I would have 15 years ago. Although I read a lot back then, I didn’t really grasp the concepts until the Mystery’s show on Vh1. Seeing how this all works on video is far more informative than reading. Also there isn’t much video of live pick ups in the field on You Tube so Mystery’s show is the best free source that I’ve found. I just wanted to give the address to the show so others can easily understand. Plus I think Mystery is very intelligent and an excellent teacher.


Go to VH1's website and then "search" the pick up artist and your there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mystery's VH1 show is a joke of a reality tv show. It's not worth watching.
 

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why do you say that? I'm not talking about entertainment value. I know it got cheesy with the dudes crying and all. I'm just saying for a newcommer to all of this, he would understand a lot faster. At least that's how it worked for me.
 

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When those guys were holding each other's hands in the elimination process, it killed it off so bad...but it is better than reading about it in Mystery's book. Actually, it goes hand in hand; you'll benefit by 150% if you watch and read both.
 

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The one that won the PUA from that show is an actor.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's interesting and some of the tenets he presents are true, but nothing that isn't already on SoSuave.

And I wouldn't be surprised at all if these shows are scripted.
 
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