"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I found this site a few years ago. I wish I would have 15 years ago. Although I read a lot back then, I didn’t really grasp the concepts until the Mystery’s show on Vh1. Seeing how this all works on video is far more informative than reading. Also there isn’t much video of live pick ups in the field on You Tube so Mystery’s show is the best free source that I’ve found. I just wanted to give the address to the show so others can easily understand. Plus I think Mystery is very intelligent and an excellent teacher.


Go to VH1's website and then "search" the pick up artist and your there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Master Bates

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Mystery's VH1 show is a joke of a reality tv show. It's not worth watching.
 
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why do you say that? I'm not talking about entertainment value. I know it got cheesy with the dudes crying and all. I'm just saying for a newcommer to all of this, he would understand a lot faster. At least that's how it worked for me.
 
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When those guys were holding each other's hands in the elimination process, it killed it off so bad...but it is better than reading about it in Mystery's book. Actually, it goes hand in hand; you'll benefit by 150% if you watch and read both.
 
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The one that won the PUA from that show is an actor.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's interesting and some of the tenets he presents are true, but nothing that isn't already on SoSuave.

And I wouldn't be surprised at all if these shows are scripted.
 
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