"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Watch out for these types of girls guys

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So my room mate invites me out to the bar. Along with us is this chick he met on Tinder.
So me and said chick end up striking up a conversation. Shes really touchy feely with me and I can tell she digs me more than my room mate, but bros before h#es so ofcourse I act aloof.

I dont know why but females always want to tell me their deepest secrets and sh*t like I'm Dr Phil or something.. i guess because my vibe is always so relaxed and stoner mellow so they relax too.

So we are talking about how she is a recent grad from college and works at xxxx xxxxxxx hospital as a research asst
or something
Basically she is broke and often cant afford food so she goes on 3-4 Tinder Dates a week just for free meals!

My roommate did end up boning her (not that night) but I'm almost 90% sure its because he is an engineer bachelor and she could use the financial help. Hopefully he's not dumb enough to give her money but its not really my business how he spends money..

Just thought I'd warn you guys, and give you another reason to keep the 1st dates cheap.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I wasn't even mad at her bro. I blame the men, tbh. At a certain age you shouldn't be so naieve.
Yer, damn beta white nights create monsters out of women. I. Had a fu.k budy who always said if I was penyless she would take me out, as she just flirts with guys and they buy here drinks.... I said yes once..... I got totally wasted and it cost me nothing.... Stupid beta white nights deserve to get scamed!!!
 

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Call me a "beta" but I wouldnt have any problem to fill up a girls fridge once a week if she sucks me every every couple of days and ask nothing else from me.
 

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Call me a "beta" but I wouldnt have any problem to fill up a girls fridge once a week if she sucks me every every couple of days and ask nothing else from me.
Yeah that'd be dope if that was the arrangement agreed upon. The issue is she pretends to like these guys when all she wants is food.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My roommate did end up boning her (not that night) but I'm almost 90% sure its because he is an engineer bachelor and she could use the financial help.
Just thought I'd warn you guys, and give you another reason to keep the 1st dates cheap.
Thanks for this insight. But remember, the nature of relationships is women offering sex for food. That's why it's called the World's Oldest Profession. This is not a bad thing. What is bad is when a woman falls for a hot, unemployed man and gets pregnant and becomes destitute because he provides no resources.

All your life you imagined that some day you'd be great and then women would love you for you, but the greatness (i.e., wealth) must come first, so how will you ever know? Stop caring.

Also, don't you like having nice dinners with hot women? Would you rather go to Arby's and save? I make sure I have a great time every date, so there is never any debt. She doesn't owe me anything. I enjoy her company and about 40% of the time it leads to sex.

That said, never spend a nickel on her again if you know for sure she is not attracted to you (by attraction I mean romantically interested, for any reason). Women want pretty men the way men want rich ladies. I couldn't care less about a woman's resources myself.

"A woman wants to sell her eggs to the man who can get the most resources".
- Stefan Molyneux (from Why Women like Sociopaths).
 
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