"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wat would one do?

lamobatsman

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would you still meet up with a girl knwoing she isnt as into you as you are into her.

You have feelings for her and reli like her but u know ur gut is telling u that shes not as into you as you are.

Do you still go meet that girl knowing it cud end in heartbreak for you?

or dont go see her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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moneyisking

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if you know you can bang her yes, but if not, why the hell waste my time?
 

lamobatsman

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moneyisking said:
if you know you can bang her yes, but if not, why the hell waste my time?
1) how do u know u can bang her
2) if u reli like her a lot u want more than a bang
 

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Why are you so hung up on a chick you haven't even met?

Also, avoiding "text speak" is a sign of manliness.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lamobatsman

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LongLostFriend said:
Why are you so hung up on a chick you haven't even met?

Also, avoiding "text speak" is a sign of manliness.

its possible but u sstill havent answered the question:p
 

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It has been answered for you already. If this could end in heartbreak before you have even met her, you are way too invested. Stop texting chicks before meeting them in person. She is just a girl, so keep your heart to yourself until she falls in love with you.

Now start spelling out your words and stop looking like a teenaged girl on the forum.
 

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@lamo: you just wrote in your own thread that she is not interested in you that way; bro trust me, i been through that sh!t where you like the girl so much that you just don't grasp the reality that she's not interested, but your mind keeps telling you "but what if." It's a huge fvcking waste of time; have you heard of the term "your princess is in a different castle?"
 
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