"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wat would one do?

lamobatsman

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would you still meet up with a girl knwoing she isnt as into you as you are into her.

You have feelings for her and reli like her but u know ur gut is telling u that shes not as into you as you are.

Do you still go meet that girl knowing it cud end in heartbreak for you?

or dont go see her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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moneyisking

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if you know you can bang her yes, but if not, why the hell waste my time?
 

lamobatsman

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moneyisking said:
if you know you can bang her yes, but if not, why the hell waste my time?
1) how do u know u can bang her
2) if u reli like her a lot u want more than a bang
 

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Why are you so hung up on a chick you haven't even met?

Also, avoiding "text speak" is a sign of manliness.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LongLostFriend said:
Why are you so hung up on a chick you haven't even met?

Also, avoiding "text speak" is a sign of manliness.

its possible but u sstill havent answered the question:p
 

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It has been answered for you already. If this could end in heartbreak before you have even met her, you are way too invested. Stop texting chicks before meeting them in person. She is just a girl, so keep your heart to yourself until she falls in love with you.

Now start spelling out your words and stop looking like a teenaged girl on the forum.
 

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@lamo: you just wrote in your own thread that she is not interested in you that way; bro trust me, i been through that sh!t where you like the girl so much that you just don't grasp the reality that she's not interested, but your mind keeps telling you "but what if." It's a huge fvcking waste of time; have you heard of the term "your princess is in a different castle?"
 
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