"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DemonXIII

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Ahrite...

I been peepin' this site for a while now...
But even before comin' here i was already successful with woman
A Natural Don Juan, but comin' here has tought me alot of new things
And alot of new meanings understandings.... so... much love....

Now...

Lately I been on fire... from just ****in' around to
1 night stands... From juss gettin' numbers for the hell of it... practicin' my game...
But around 3 months ago
I met a beautiful Chicana (hb9) by one of my close homeboys... (his wife's little sister)...
Things with me and her started off on a hella right foot...
I played all my cards right... did everythin' the right way...
Since we started talkin' i have her eatin' out of my hand...
To her i'm real special... she's fascinate by my style...


but...Now heres the thing...

I asked her to be my girl 2 weeks back...
Before that she has mentioned that she was use to gettin' what she wants
and it was drivin' her crazy cause she couldnt have what she wanted and she said these exact words
(U wanna know what's the thing that i really really really want???)
I responded and said (What's that?)
And she said (I really want you! and i hate the fact that i can't have you)
HaHa i played it coo' and i teased her for a few more days...
Let her melt for me but then i decided to ask her to my girl...
I know for a fact she has a really high Interest level in me
Cause Yeserday when i took her out we went dancin' and before the night ended she whispered in my ear (i think im fallin' in love wit u)
I responded with "Yeah me too" lol
Ahrite i really like this chick and i don't wanna lose her...
I mean i think im doin' everythin right...
I don't call her everyday
And when i do call her we speak for 30 mins thats it...
She knows im usually very busy (work, friends...ect)
I only see her one time a week (usually every saturday)
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Now i just wanna get all of you DJ's opinions on how things are goin' for me... I don't wanna **** this one up...
Any Advise Any comments Whatever GO AHEAD AND DROP EM homies

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by DemonXIII
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In the future, try to reply in proper english. Perhaps having complete sentences and good grammar will help us follow your story a little better. I mean I don't have any idea what "Let her melt for me but then i decided to ask her to my girl..." Correct spelling not hurt also - "advice".

Using those steps I'm sure your future posts will get better responses (and people will be able to know what in the hell you're asking).

Cheers mate.
 
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sounds like you know what your doing but you've never really gotten this into a girl? Just let go and have fun, live in the moments, shyt won't last forever and she sounds worth it. Just don't go all punk bytch on her and make her lose interest. She has a life and so should you.... Good Luck
 
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wat up dawg yo
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
huh??

Can someone translate?

How do people get through school with this language?
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fo sheezy, izzle on the nizzle BIATCH.
 
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quit being douchebags.



Anyway, looks like you got it all good man. Im iffy on the "asked her to be my girl" thing tho... but i am the type that hates making anything official.

Personally id just let the relationship progress without trying to label it as anything. Like the other dude said, just live in the moment. Btw have you banged her ?
 
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Originally posted by Sir Space
quit being douchebags.
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yes sir sir space sir!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Evil-Rom
yes sir sir space sir!
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oooo i wish the SA filter worked here.
 
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Re: Re: Wassup DJ's

Originally posted by Vincent
In the future, try to reply in proper english. Perhaps having complete sentences and good grammar will help us follow your story a little better. I mean I don't have any idea what "Let her melt for me but then i decided to ask her to my girl..." Correct spelling not hurt also - "advice".

Using those steps I'm sure your future posts will get better responses (and people will be able to know what in the hell you're asking).

Cheers mate.
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You a straight little biotch!
 
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