"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Was your girlfriend, f*ck buddy etc in a relationship when you found her?

Your girls relationship status when you met her.

  • Yes

    Votes: 4 25.0%

  • No

    Votes: 7 43.8%

  • She was in nothing serious

    Votes: 5 31.3%
  • Total voters
    16
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Because of the "Does EVERY pretty girl have a boyfriend" thread I thought it would be a good idea to make a poll on this subject.

The question is, was your girlfriend, f*uk buddy, girl you date regularly etc; in a relationship when you found her? If she had a boyfriend or was in a serious relationship choose YES. If she was single and not dating anybody choose NO. If she was dating around, nothing serious then choose, nothing serious. If you are not with a girl now, pick the option that applies to your most recent woman.

Bah I just realized that the poll choices aren't very intuitive.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes, but she lied to me and said she had broken up with him before we became a couple.

She didn't.

She screwed him over to come to me and then she screwed me over to go to the next guy.

Had I known in the beginning she betrayed her boyfriend for me she would've been nexted on the spot.

Oh well.
 
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my ex was in a relationship and we were just friends who had sex..but eventually when they broke up we got together
 
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how do you find FB? i tried searching on Craigslist w/o any lucks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Great idea for a thread. But I have to say "I don't know".

My dating life is very, very different from most of you kids on here. I move around so dam much, when I meet a woman, I generally don't know any of her friends or anything about her but what she tells me.

I read all these stories here about a girl who worked with you two years ago, and you've kept in touch since then, and now you want to turn it into something more, so you ask her house mate about her . . . and it just blows my mind how weird you people are, man.

First off, what kind of shyt job do you have that you still work with girls?

What was I saying? Oh yeah. The answer is I don't know.
 
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Well all the girls I hooked up with were fvcking around with various guys. One had a BF and was on a "break". They all seemed to have an ex or some guy in the background. Most of them could've had BF's, I didn't get into their business as it was very short encounters. The girls were mostly average looking, nothing above an 8-8.5 in my book. Any girls above an 8.5, were either flaky or I never got a chance to meet them due to them being surrounded by a c0ckblock enterage of guys and girls.
 
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