"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Was your girlfriend, f*ck buddy etc in a relationship when you found her?

Your girls relationship status when you met her.

  • Yes

    Votes: 4 25.0%

  • No

    Votes: 7 43.8%

  • She was in nothing serious

    Votes: 5 31.3%
  • Total voters
    16
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Because of the "Does EVERY pretty girl have a boyfriend" thread I thought it would be a good idea to make a poll on this subject.

The question is, was your girlfriend, f*uk buddy, girl you date regularly etc; in a relationship when you found her? If she had a boyfriend or was in a serious relationship choose YES. If she was single and not dating anybody choose NO. If she was dating around, nothing serious then choose, nothing serious. If you are not with a girl now, pick the option that applies to your most recent woman.

Bah I just realized that the poll choices aren't very intuitive.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes, but she lied to me and said she had broken up with him before we became a couple.

She didn't.

She screwed him over to come to me and then she screwed me over to go to the next guy.

Had I known in the beginning she betrayed her boyfriend for me she would've been nexted on the spot.

Oh well.
 
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my ex was in a relationship and we were just friends who had sex..but eventually when they broke up we got together
 
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how do you find FB? i tried searching on Craigslist w/o any lucks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Great idea for a thread. But I have to say "I don't know".

My dating life is very, very different from most of you kids on here. I move around so dam much, when I meet a woman, I generally don't know any of her friends or anything about her but what she tells me.

I read all these stories here about a girl who worked with you two years ago, and you've kept in touch since then, and now you want to turn it into something more, so you ask her house mate about her . . . and it just blows my mind how weird you people are, man.

First off, what kind of shyt job do you have that you still work with girls?

What was I saying? Oh yeah. The answer is I don't know.
 
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Well all the girls I hooked up with were fvcking around with various guys. One had a BF and was on a "break". They all seemed to have an ex or some guy in the background. Most of them could've had BF's, I didn't get into their business as it was very short encounters. The girls were mostly average looking, nothing above an 8-8.5 in my book. Any girls above an 8.5, were either flaky or I never got a chance to meet them due to them being surrounded by a c0ckblock enterage of guys and girls.
 
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