She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I just want the Fresh Prince Will back.You should be a writer Pan, I'm serious.
You get quite a bit of flack on here for your hedonistic lifestyle and 1000+ notch count but damn you can write!
The above quoted - just about sums it up, lol, nuff said!
On a separate note, I watched King Richard last night for which WS won the Oscar.
He was good but not *that* good; his acting reminded me of Laurence Fishburne's portrayal of Ike Turner in "What's Love Got To Do With It" without the physical abuse.
Decent movie though.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Way to use reductio ad absurdum. You're adding "poisoning the well" ideas such as lizard people, aliens, bigfoot, flat earth, ect. to discredit a plausible idea. You don't think people of power use it to bribe and control others? Especially when it comes to mass influence the way celebrities have? Cinema was seen as a mass propaganda tool as early as the 1920s. J Edgar Hoover was very serious about keeping agents on movie sets to control what was put in the movies. What about all the Harvey Weinstein type sex stuff that supposedly goes on. Do you think Corey Feldman was lying? What about Corey Haim?
You know one of the alphabet agencies came up with the term "tinfoil hat", as well as "conspiracy theory" Gee..... I wonder why that is?
[/QUOThe lizard people are coming!
Hahahaha..it's funny I said the same thing to my friend.