"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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was this wayy to AFC'ish...

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HB - I am almost done with my pediatric nurse course.
Me - pediatric? :) gonna be a really good mother <3
HB - OMG I hope so one day
HB - You make me feel sooooo emotional

LOL I think i f up. haha

i re-read and havent responded since yesterday haha

wat u guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Nah, I think you're fine. Developing a connection with a girl never hurt.

Now, the Heart thing at the end is not good.

Just go right back to the Alpha ASAP.
yeah man that heart made me cringe a bit lol
 

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Never ever send a woman an emoticon or a heart in your life again. I forbid you from partaking in such actions. In fact, no "lol" or any rubbish like that.
 

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El Payaso said:
Never ever send a woman an emoticon or a heart in your life again. I forbid you from partaking in such actions. In fact, no "lol" or any rubbish like that.


Cold lol
 

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Don't misinterpret what it means to be AFC. Complementing a women or using charisma is not AFC. You can be alpha and be charismatic or you can be badass, whatever. But to be an AFC is to be weak, lack confidence, and think the way to a woman's heart is through meeting her demands, or at least what you wrongfully think she wants. Of course we all know this is unattractive because we've all met the female version of the AFC. Anyway that **** you said ainte too AFC but I agree with above poster about emoticons and lols -- I know from trial and error -- DON'T USE THOSE. Funny now the women ask me "how come you never use emoticons"? And when I do they **** off. :cheer:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Did you fvck her?
Did you date her?
Did you even get her on a date?

So much sh!t on being 'Alpha' makes me disgusted. While you dudes are trying to be 'Alfalfa' these beta faggots are laying women. Stop thinking about all that crap and live life. Live life the way you want to and don't worry if you are following some other dudes' path.
 

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The411 said:
Did you fvck her?
Did you date her?
Did you even get her on a date?

So much sh!t on being 'Alpha' makes me disgusted. While you dudes are trying to be 'Alfalfa' these beta faggots are laying women. Stop thinking about all that crap and live life. Live life the way you want to and don't worry if you are following some other dudes' path.
Faggots don't lay women, they phuck men. Your right on one aspect -- don't overthink sh!t too much. Best to learn through experience.
 

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The411 said:
Did you fvck her?
Did you date her?
Did you even get her on a date?

So much sh!t on being 'Alpha' makes me disgusted. While you dudes are trying to be 'Alfalfa' these beta faggots are laying women. Stop thinking about all that crap and live life. Live life the way you want to and don't worry if you are following some other dudes' path.
I know her from school.

Gonna ask her on a date sometime this week.
 

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Agree with the above posters about not using emoticons.

In an LTR I will occasionally send a ;) face if my text is flirty or if she deserves one.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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OP, did you make a thread just to ask that silly question? REALLY??

and you even got feedback.
I'm starting to think that the PUA's that created the concepts of alpha and beta/afc did more harm than good. This makes guys over-analyse every damn detail of their interactions with women, it makes them obssesed, confused, and more 'afc', which is a paradox.

dark times are coming...
 

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pyros said:
OP, did you make a thread just to ask that silly question? REALLY??

and you even got feedback.
I'm starting to think that the PUA's that created the concepts of alpha and beta/afc did more harm than good. This makes guys over-analyse every damn detail of their interactions with women, you it makes them obssesed, confused, and more 'afc', which is a paradox.

dark times are coming...
Darktimes? Lol the apocalypse
 

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pyros said:
OP, did you make a thread just to ask that silly question? REALLY??

and you even got feedback.
I'm starting to think that the PUA's that created the concepts of alpha and beta/afc did more harm than good. This makes guys over-analyse every damn detail of their interactions with women, it makes them obssesed, confused, and more 'afc', which is a paradox.

dark times are coming...
I agree, this thread is pretty silly, and YES dark times are coming if we don't turn the "alpha" down a notch.
 
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