"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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was this wayy to AFC'ish...

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HB - I am almost done with my pediatric nurse course.
Me - pediatric? :) gonna be a really good mother <3
HB - OMG I hope so one day
HB - You make me feel sooooo emotional

LOL I think i f up. haha

i re-read and havent responded since yesterday haha

wat u guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Nah, I think you're fine. Developing a connection with a girl never hurt.

Now, the Heart thing at the end is not good.

Just go right back to the Alpha ASAP.
yeah man that heart made me cringe a bit lol
 

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Never ever send a woman an emoticon or a heart in your life again. I forbid you from partaking in such actions. In fact, no "lol" or any rubbish like that.
 

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El Payaso said:
Never ever send a woman an emoticon or a heart in your life again. I forbid you from partaking in such actions. In fact, no "lol" or any rubbish like that.


Cold lol
 

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Don't misinterpret what it means to be AFC. Complementing a women or using charisma is not AFC. You can be alpha and be charismatic or you can be badass, whatever. But to be an AFC is to be weak, lack confidence, and think the way to a woman's heart is through meeting her demands, or at least what you wrongfully think she wants. Of course we all know this is unattractive because we've all met the female version of the AFC. Anyway that **** you said ainte too AFC but I agree with above poster about emoticons and lols -- I know from trial and error -- DON'T USE THOSE. Funny now the women ask me "how come you never use emoticons"? And when I do they **** off. :cheer:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Did you fvck her?
Did you date her?
Did you even get her on a date?

So much sh!t on being 'Alpha' makes me disgusted. While you dudes are trying to be 'Alfalfa' these beta faggots are laying women. Stop thinking about all that crap and live life. Live life the way you want to and don't worry if you are following some other dudes' path.
 

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The411 said:
Did you fvck her?
Did you date her?
Did you even get her on a date?

So much sh!t on being 'Alpha' makes me disgusted. While you dudes are trying to be 'Alfalfa' these beta faggots are laying women. Stop thinking about all that crap and live life. Live life the way you want to and don't worry if you are following some other dudes' path.
Faggots don't lay women, they phuck men. Your right on one aspect -- don't overthink sh!t too much. Best to learn through experience.
 

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The411 said:
Did you fvck her?
Did you date her?
Did you even get her on a date?

So much sh!t on being 'Alpha' makes me disgusted. While you dudes are trying to be 'Alfalfa' these beta faggots are laying women. Stop thinking about all that crap and live life. Live life the way you want to and don't worry if you are following some other dudes' path.
I know her from school.

Gonna ask her on a date sometime this week.
 

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Agree with the above posters about not using emoticons.

In an LTR I will occasionally send a ;) face if my text is flirty or if she deserves one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OP, did you make a thread just to ask that silly question? REALLY??

and you even got feedback.
I'm starting to think that the PUA's that created the concepts of alpha and beta/afc did more harm than good. This makes guys over-analyse every damn detail of their interactions with women, it makes them obssesed, confused, and more 'afc', which is a paradox.

dark times are coming...
 

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pyros said:
OP, did you make a thread just to ask that silly question? REALLY??

and you even got feedback.
I'm starting to think that the PUA's that created the concepts of alpha and beta/afc did more harm than good. This makes guys over-analyse every damn detail of their interactions with women, you it makes them obssesed, confused, and more 'afc', which is a paradox.

dark times are coming...
Darktimes? Lol the apocalypse
 

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pyros said:
OP, did you make a thread just to ask that silly question? REALLY??

and you even got feedback.
I'm starting to think that the PUA's that created the concepts of alpha and beta/afc did more harm than good. This makes guys over-analyse every damn detail of their interactions with women, it makes them obssesed, confused, and more 'afc', which is a paradox.

dark times are coming...
I agree, this thread is pretty silly, and YES dark times are coming if we don't turn the "alpha" down a notch.
 
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