Giacobe.KB said:
So I was flirting with a girl in a late night biology class yesterday and she showed a ton of ioi from smiling, laughing, touching, "accidental" bumping, calling me mean. i got her phone number and after class i texted "study with me on mondau"
was i too commanding because she still hasn't texted back, its been a day...
That's it? That's all you said? No,that wasn't too demanding. In fact,in my opinion,it was pretty perfect. You're trippin' out over not having heard from her in a day? Man,you need to get out more. Go somewhere and do something. Play a sport,hang with some friends,just do something other than sitting by the phone waiting for her to call. And the worst thing you could do would be to try to contact her too soon. Give it a couple days. Maybe call her on Sunday. If you keep trying to contact her too often,she'll get the impression that you don't have a life,and that she's the only girl in your life right now. Even if that's true,you don't want her to know it. She'll lose any attraction she may have for you,and you'll accidentally pump up her pride.
She'll may still try to keep in contact with you from time to time,but it won't be because she likes YOU,it'll be because she likes the MALE ATTENTION.
But because she still call or text you every now and then,you'll misinterpet itand think she likes you when she doesn't.
I think you're ok,just keep yourself occupied doing something instead of thinking about her.
