“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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frisco

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k theres this girl in one of my classes, and her and one of her friends go on the topic of hair and crap. well she has naturaly strait hair but sometime she like puts crap in it to make it wavvy which i personaly think looks kinda cheap and dumb and i told her that i like it better when its staight, cause she was talkin about all the diff. stuff she does with it. Now was i out of line or was she just over reacting when she was like wow that was mean. i just played it cool and acted like she was just freakin out about nothing.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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No, theres nothing wrong with giving your opinion on which you think is better..
 

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what should/could have happened

Me: I like it better straight.

Her: Wow, that's kind of mean.

Me: It's not mean. It's truthful. Or should I lie to you and tell you it looks beautiful, when in reality I could surf all the waves in your hair.

Her: OMG! ... you know what?!...

Me: *interupt Her before she spews negative comments* ... Truthfully, you're hairs not bad, but you might look hot with it straight. Try it, and if you dont give even one guy a boner, then I guess I was wrong. *Smile*

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Depending on how edgy your usual conversations are... this might defintelly not fit you... but I tend to talk like this on a day to day basis.
 

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You could try this.

Not caring. Just think to yourself and imagine how much life they're wasting by wondering if their hair looks good every minute.
Personally, once you hear a chick blab on about something that she thinks is bad which it is oviously not, then I start laughing inside. Then I start paying her out about that certain 'insecurity' in a sarcastic way.
 

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Yes! A mock sarcastic, whiny voice about your own hair being out of place, or one of my favourites : 'Oh no! I broke a nail!' or 'I haven't got my makeup on and its awful!' say something like that in a whiny voice with a grin, gets a laugh every time, works as a neg about their complaints, and best of all shuts tem up about their appearance. At least for a few minutes anyway... <_<
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Voice tone comes into play when you give your opinion about something like that. Opinions are good to give.
 
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