"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Was this being a prick or trying too hard to not be nice?

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This chick at uni walked by me while I was sitting (we are in a few classes together but barely talk, nor am I interested). She dropped her phone right in front of my feet and looked at me and asked if I could pick it up for her. I didn't respond and another girl behind her picked it up for her and as she walked away she called out "snob".

What do you guys think? Is it me or her? I'd probably rate her a 6 or 7.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tight game. Maybe you'll spot her walking in the parking lot as your pulling out and you can floor it towards her.

j/k. Maybe ignoring her was a little bit uncalled for. Why didn't you bust her balls just a bit and go for the number?

Having said that there's a DJ Bible tip advocating being an azzhole for a day once every so often which I often put into practice.
 
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It depends.

If her arms were full with books and it would have been difficult for her to pick it up herself, then you'd have been a prick.
If she was just standing there with her hands on her hips waiting for you to be her manservant, then she'd have been the prick.
 
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Think she had 2 small books in her arms (not heavy at all could've handled both with one arm). She was also standing right next to it as well. I don't understand haha. Don't want her number, I'm not interested at all. I do have her on Facebook though.
 
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Here's an incoherent answer but try to follow it.

You shouldn't have ignored the phone if you were closer to it. That was you being a prick.

She shouldn't have expected you to get the phone. That was her being a b!tch.

Being nice means doing things for acceptance not because they are the appropriate things to do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just about the same distance, with the difference of me sitting and her standing. I mean I believe people should earn respect, not demand it.
 
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IAMAREALBOY said:
I mean I believe people should earn respect, not demand it.
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I totally agree with that. If it was me there is no way I'd ever be courteous to her again. I'd probably step on her hand the next time.

Common courtesy earns you respect in most situations though. It's the times it doesn't that we remember but start focusing on what it does get you from the right kind of people.
 
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