"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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was this a test

l23

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So friday night I met this hot chic at a party, K-closed, n the next day f-close her. So when we started getting it on, n we were both naked, I said "wait let me get a condom"(which was in my pocket) n she answered "Don't worry about it I'm on birth control". Later on, I asked her if she wanted 2 do it w/o condom, n she replied "Most guys dont like condoms" I told her that it was better 2 b safe, n she replied "Most of those guys r irresponsible".
So guys tell me if this a test or am I just overanalyzing.
Thanx
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Warrior74

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Who cares if its a test. Seriously. Your a man and you do what you want to do. It almost sounds like shes a filthy hor. She just let guys *** in her all the time? What sort of girl is she?
 

Duffdog

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Most college girls are all about not getting pregnant, so you don't have to worry about that near as much as other types of females. But for your own safety, condoms are a good idea. I don't think it was any kind of test at all, she just was being real and stating the obvious.
 

TheBucketOfTruth

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It sounds like she's the one who is irresponsible. She doesn't normally use them because guys don't like to? All the more reason you should wrap up before you do anything.
 

Desdinova

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"Don't worry about it I'm on birth control".
You know how many fvcking times I've heard this line? Every time was from a woman who wanted to have my baby.

When you hear words like this, you either tell her "condom or nothing" or get the fvck out of there. YOU decide when you want to become a father, not her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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