"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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was this a test

l23

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So friday night I met this hot chic at a party, K-closed, n the next day f-close her. So when we started getting it on, n we were both naked, I said "wait let me get a condom"(which was in my pocket) n she answered "Don't worry about it I'm on birth control". Later on, I asked her if she wanted 2 do it w/o condom, n she replied "Most guys dont like condoms" I told her that it was better 2 b safe, n she replied "Most of those guys r irresponsible".
So guys tell me if this a test or am I just overanalyzing.
Thanx
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Warrior74

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Who cares if its a test. Seriously. Your a man and you do what you want to do. It almost sounds like shes a filthy hor. She just let guys *** in her all the time? What sort of girl is she?
 

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Most college girls are all about not getting pregnant, so you don't have to worry about that near as much as other types of females. But for your own safety, condoms are a good idea. I don't think it was any kind of test at all, she just was being real and stating the obvious.
 

TheBucketOfTruth

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It sounds like she's the one who is irresponsible. She doesn't normally use them because guys don't like to? All the more reason you should wrap up before you do anything.
 

Desdinova

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"Don't worry about it I'm on birth control".
You know how many fvcking times I've heard this line? Every time was from a woman who wanted to have my baby.

When you hear words like this, you either tell her "condom or nothing" or get the fvck out of there. YOU decide when you want to become a father, not her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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