"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Was this a **** test? if so did I handle it correctly?

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I was texting this girl , HB 8.5, about these girls that are into me and how they keep hinting that I should ask them out. I tell her that for me, its either I get many girls at a time or none at all. She says its not bad to be wanted. I text her back that it is great and everyone is always nice to me now. She says that nice people make life good. I agreed and told her life is too short for mean people.
OK so ive been talking to this girl a lot, I'm usually nice to her but not always, cause I'm not a B.
So after I txt her that life is too short for mean people, she says:
Her: Seriously...I guess I'm gonna have to cut you out if my life now loll
Me: Lol you'd miss me too much :p
Her: No no I need nice people in my life, you said it yourself :))
Me:Lol you're right. You do. :] and you're right, I'm not nice enough. And I have no plans to change. :]
Her: lolll
I didn't text her back. I felt like a beta would try to prove to her that he is nice enough. I did the opposite. Was this a **** test? How'd I do? Lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What's up man, I'm pretty new to posting in this forum but I have been following it for quite some time.. Anyway I think you did well holding your ground, I think she was testing you just to see how you would have responded. I think you did well, just less lol's and :]. Those should be used sparingly
 
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The conversation seems alright, but you seriously need to get off the damn phone.
 
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Would've been great if you were conversing with her in real life and instead said: "Yeah, I guess I'm not really nice. But, you know what they say, nice guys finish last." Then grab her waist and go for the kiss.
 
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That's not a shiit test man. I think the objective is to charm these ladies, you might have gone too far on this one. lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lol yeah I wasn't sure if she was trying to be playful or sh1t testing me. Damn lol, so hard to tell sometimes.
 
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