"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Was this a **** test? if so did I handle it correctly?

ChemGod

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 3, 2014
Messages
79
Reaction score
4
Location
Near you
I was texting this girl , HB 8.5, about these girls that are into me and how they keep hinting that I should ask them out. I tell her that for me, its either I get many girls at a time or none at all. She says its not bad to be wanted. I text her back that it is great and everyone is always nice to me now. She says that nice people make life good. I agreed and told her life is too short for mean people.
OK so ive been talking to this girl a lot, I'm usually nice to her but not always, cause I'm not a B.
So after I txt her that life is too short for mean people, she says:
Her: Seriously...I guess I'm gonna have to cut you out if my life now loll
Me: Lol you'd miss me too much :p
Her: No no I need nice people in my life, you said it yourself :))
Me:Lol you're right. You do. :] and you're right, I'm not nice enough. And I have no plans to change. :]
Her: lolll
I didn't text her back. I felt like a beta would try to prove to her that he is nice enough. I did the opposite. Was this a **** test? How'd I do? Lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

\\mattyice//

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 25, 2015
Messages
23
Reaction score
4
What's up man, I'm pretty new to posting in this forum but I have been following it for quite some time.. Anyway I think you did well holding your ground, I think she was testing you just to see how you would have responded. I think you did well, just less lol's and :]. Those should be used sparingly
 

Obsidian

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2006
Messages
2,554
Reaction score
26
Location
TN
The conversation seems alright, but you seriously need to get off the damn phone.
 

Naughty Fins

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 25, 2014
Messages
18
Reaction score
1
Location
Wall Maria
Would've been great if you were conversing with her in real life and instead said: "Yeah, I guess I'm not really nice. But, you know what they say, nice guys finish last." Then grab her waist and go for the kiss.
 

SgtSplacker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2011
Messages
2,039
Reaction score
504
That's not a shiit test man. I think the objective is to charm these ladies, you might have gone too far on this one. lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

ChemGod

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 3, 2014
Messages
79
Reaction score
4
Location
Near you
Lol yeah I wasn't sure if she was trying to be playful or sh1t testing me. Damn lol, so hard to tell sometimes.
 
Top