"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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About a month ago, I'm waiting to talk to my teacher and I didn't realize my tie was tangled up in my backpack. this girl i never talked to was standing next to me, and then fixed my tie, said she liked my gottee and asked if i was growing it for anyone special.

im really stupid at this stuff and now when i look at it, it looks to me she might have been interested in me, but being the little ***** i am, i messed up. what do you think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It could be, but then none of us were there. She might be a flirt. These types of girls like to flatter and receive attention.

You need to talk to her, but do not show too much interest. Do not stalk. Talk to other girls in front of her but don't be too obvious.
 
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In other words. Read the Bible and any "Tips" posts, as well as the tip articles that you can recieve in the mail from the main site, or the ones that are on the home page.

Go from there. It's been a month. Chances are thats passed you up. No biggie.
 
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I have one more question. I'm really bad at flirting and don't really know how to. Anyone know of a good website that helps out a lot with that kind of stuff?
 
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You want a website to help you with flirting? Come on man. Go out in real life and watch guys do it or if you're too insecure to do that, then rent a romantic movie. It's really not a science =/
 
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This is the site that helps you with flirting. Look up Kino, ****y and Funny, Neg Hits, Push/Pull, Conversation tactics, all that jazz
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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