"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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metalguy33

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About a month ago, I'm waiting to talk to my teacher and I didn't realize my tie was tangled up in my backpack. this girl i never talked to was standing next to me, and then fixed my tie, said she liked my gottee and asked if i was growing it for anyone special.

im really stupid at this stuff and now when i look at it, it looks to me she might have been interested in me, but being the little ***** i am, i messed up. what do you think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oakraiderz2

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yes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maeisgood

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It could be, but then none of us were there. She might be a flirt. These types of girls like to flatter and receive attention.

You need to talk to her, but do not show too much interest. Do not stalk. Talk to other girls in front of her but don't be too obvious.
 

Skilla_Staz

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In other words. Read the Bible and any "Tips" posts, as well as the tip articles that you can recieve in the mail from the main site, or the ones that are on the home page.

Go from there. It's been a month. Chances are thats passed you up. No biggie.
 

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I have one more question. I'm really bad at flirting and don't really know how to. Anyone know of a good website that helps out a lot with that kind of stuff?
 

WC2

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You want a website to help you with flirting? Come on man. Go out in real life and watch guys do it or if you're too insecure to do that, then rent a romantic movie. It's really not a science =/
 

Skilla_Staz

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This is the site that helps you with flirting. Look up Kino, ****y and Funny, Neg Hits, Push/Pull, Conversation tactics, all that jazz
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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