"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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was this a sign?

metalguy33

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About a month ago, I'm waiting to talk to my teacher and I didn't realize my tie was tangled up in my backpack. this girl i never talked to was standing next to me, and then fixed my tie, said she liked my gottee and asked if i was growing it for anyone special.

im really stupid at this stuff and now when i look at it, it looks to me she might have been interested in me, but being the little ***** i am, i messed up. what do you think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oakraiderz2

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yes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maeisgood

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It could be, but then none of us were there. She might be a flirt. These types of girls like to flatter and receive attention.

You need to talk to her, but do not show too much interest. Do not stalk. Talk to other girls in front of her but don't be too obvious.
 

Skilla_Staz

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In other words. Read the Bible and any "Tips" posts, as well as the tip articles that you can recieve in the mail from the main site, or the ones that are on the home page.

Go from there. It's been a month. Chances are thats passed you up. No biggie.
 

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I have one more question. I'm really bad at flirting and don't really know how to. Anyone know of a good website that helps out a lot with that kind of stuff?
 

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You want a website to help you with flirting? Come on man. Go out in real life and watch guys do it or if you're too insecure to do that, then rent a romantic movie. It's really not a science =/
 

Skilla_Staz

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This is the site that helps you with flirting. Look up Kino, ****y and Funny, Neg Hits, Push/Pull, Conversation tactics, all that jazz
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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