"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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was this a sh!t test? how would you respond to this

montybrown

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One of the chicks I'm talking to on the phone told me "It takes me 3 hours to put my makeup on" and I didn't really know what to say so basically I just was like "Damn girl... 3 hours?!" and then she was like "Well more like 2! I have long hair that's why.." I think I could've probably handled it better. Ideally what would of been the best thing to come back with?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maxtro

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Her: "It takes me 3 hours to put my makeup on"

You: "Are you that ugly?"

LOL not recommended.

I don't think it meant anything unless she is using it as an excuse as to why she can't do something.
 

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Tell her to put her hair in a bun and hurry the hell up
 

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I think your over thinking this. Just laugh.
 

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I was in a similar situation, but it was when me and her were falling asleep in her bed, she told me she had to get up at 6 to be somewhere at 10. I made fun of her and actually went through with her what exactly she had to do in the morning that took so long, and she ended up getting up 2 hours later because i made her realize she didn't need to wake up so early.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zerocelcius

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montybrown said:
One of the chicks I'm talking to on the phone told me "It takes me 3 hours to put my makeup on" and I didn't really know what to say so basically I just was like "Damn girl... 3 hours?!" and then she was like "Well more like 2! I have long hair that's why.." I think I could've probably handled it better. Ideally what would of been the best thing to come back with?

A lot of girls take this much time. 2 hours. It takes them that long because of the long hair. Unless they blow dry it (not likely)!

If it would have been a sh!t test it would have been in a question or situational (form) statement.
 
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