Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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was this a sh!t test? how would you respond to this

montybrown

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One of the chicks I'm talking to on the phone told me "It takes me 3 hours to put my makeup on" and I didn't really know what to say so basically I just was like "Damn girl... 3 hours?!" and then she was like "Well more like 2! I have long hair that's why.." I think I could've probably handled it better. Ideally what would of been the best thing to come back with?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Her: "It takes me 3 hours to put my makeup on"

You: "Are you that ugly?"

LOL not recommended.

I don't think it meant anything unless she is using it as an excuse as to why she can't do something.
 

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Tell her to put her hair in a bun and hurry the hell up
 

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I think your over thinking this. Just laugh.
 

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I was in a similar situation, but it was when me and her were falling asleep in her bed, she told me she had to get up at 6 to be somewhere at 10. I made fun of her and actually went through with her what exactly she had to do in the morning that took so long, and she ended up getting up 2 hours later because i made her realize she didn't need to wake up so early.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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montybrown said:
One of the chicks I'm talking to on the phone told me "It takes me 3 hours to put my makeup on" and I didn't really know what to say so basically I just was like "Damn girl... 3 hours?!" and then she was like "Well more like 2! I have long hair that's why.." I think I could've probably handled it better. Ideally what would of been the best thing to come back with?

A lot of girls take this much time. 2 hours. It takes them that long because of the long hair. Unless they blow dry it (not likely)!

If it would have been a sh!t test it would have been in a question or situational (form) statement.
 
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