“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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was this a good breakup letter

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blueline

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I know you can't take a call right now, but I have to get this off of my chest:

I'm sorry I unintentionally led you on to thinking you could have me under your terms. As a serial monogamist, I think letting someone in emotionally and being content with them having sex with other people is equivalent to having your cake and eating it too.

The way I acted around you was no different than how I would act around a girlfriend. Outside of labels, you acted how a girlfriend would act, too. This sort of interaction is unhealthy between a serial monogamist and a polyamorist. Therefore, I don't think we should see each other anymore.

Regardless, I enjoyed the time I spent with you and I still think you're a great person. Best of luck with everything.
 
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blueline said:
I know you can't take a call right now, but I have to get this off of my chest:

I'm sorry I unintentionally led you on to thinking you could have me under your terms. As a serial monogamist, I think letting someone in emotionally and being content with them having sex with other people is equivalent to having your cake and eating it too.

The way I acted around you was no different than how I would act around a girlfriend. Outside of labels, you acted how a girlfriend would act, too. This sort of interaction is unhealthy between a serial monogamist and a polyamorist. Therefore, I don't think we should see each other anymore.

Regardless, I enjoyed the time I spent with you and I still think you're a great person. Best of luck with everything.
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If it were me, I would tell this to her face. However, at hand, the letter is well articulated and contains a very mature message that often gets lost in this community.
 
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Is she your academic colleague in social sciences at Oxford university ?

If not then i think that was unnecessary.
 
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Is she your girlfriend??? Nope.

So no need to give her a break up letter. Just ignore her from now on. If she asks why tell her your looking for a serious relationship.
 
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