"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Was this a complement?

Canadian Catnip

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Hi all. I'm an older dude in my mid 40 and there is this HB 8 at least, that works down the street from where I live. I think there is some attraction between us but I'm confused by what she said to me today.

I'm going a bit bald so I decided to shave my head completely about two weeks ago. I saw here today and she took one look at my head and said "fresh". She is in her 20's and uses phrases like that sometimes. I'm not up on the lingo of the younger crowd and I wanted someone to help me out with what it could mean.

I went on urban dictionary to look up what it means and I think it was a complement. There are dozens of definitions of the word from attractive, fly, stylish to smelly or rookie.

Anyone know what she meant in this circumstance?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cashew

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It sounds to me that she was noticing the change in appearance and thought that the change was good and worth the compliment. It's definitely doesn't sound like a negative comment, tone and expression obviously being a potential factor here.
 

faiNt`

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"It is .. wanna feel?"
 

ATG

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Fresh is good. Better than whatever you had b4 that. When someone compliments me that I dont understand, I always ask, "is that a good thing or a bad thing? They usually would explain.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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