"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm in college and I was talking to this girl on facebook who lives in my dorm. She has a boyfriend back at home. After a while of talking at night on facebook, she asks "So what are you doing lol"...I then tell her I'm on facebook and stuff and then ask her what she is doing. She replies "ooohhh wouldn't you want to knowww? lol :)"...and then she says she's doing the same as me plus she says "im working on a bio lab but im losing interest"...Did she want me to come over to her room?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Energy25 said:
I'm in college and I was talking to this girl on facebook who lives in my dorm. She has a boyfriend back at home. After a while of talking at night on facebook, she asks "So what are you doing lol"...I then tell her I'm on facebook and stuff and then ask her what she is doing. She replies "ooohhh wouldn't you want to knowww? lol :)"...and then she says she's doing the same as me plus she says "im working on a bio lab but im losing interest"...Did she want me to come over to her room?
Only one way to find out right?
 

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Energy25 said:
I'm in college and I was talking to this girl on facebook who lives in my dorm. She has a boyfriend back at home. After a while of talking at night on facebook, she asks "So what are you doing lol"...I then tell her I'm on facebook and stuff and then ask her what she is doing. She replies "ooohhh wouldn't you want to knowww? lol :)"...and then she says she's doing the same as me plus she says "im working on a bio lab but im losing interest"...Did she want me to come over to her room?

She's interested...... hang out with her, drink a little bit and see how it goes. If she's still biting, fuvk her



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Pimp-sicle said:
She's interested...... hang out with her, drink a little bit and see how it goes. If she's still biting, fuvk her



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Alright...I thought so...The next step I want to take is to never ask these kinds of questions anymore because in the future I want to just have the confidence to do something right away instead of coming on here and asking to make sure. Nonetheless, thanks!
 
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