"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm in college and I was talking to this girl on facebook who lives in my dorm. She has a boyfriend back at home. After a while of talking at night on facebook, she asks "So what are you doing lol"...I then tell her I'm on facebook and stuff and then ask her what she is doing. She replies "ooohhh wouldn't you want to knowww? lol :)"...and then she says she's doing the same as me plus she says "im working on a bio lab but im losing interest"...Did she want me to come over to her room?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Energy25 said:
I'm in college and I was talking to this girl on facebook who lives in my dorm. She has a boyfriend back at home. After a while of talking at night on facebook, she asks "So what are you doing lol"...I then tell her I'm on facebook and stuff and then ask her what she is doing. She replies "ooohhh wouldn't you want to knowww? lol :)"...and then she says she's doing the same as me plus she says "im working on a bio lab but im losing interest"...Did she want me to come over to her room?
Only one way to find out right?
 

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Energy25 said:
I'm in college and I was talking to this girl on facebook who lives in my dorm. She has a boyfriend back at home. After a while of talking at night on facebook, she asks "So what are you doing lol"...I then tell her I'm on facebook and stuff and then ask her what she is doing. She replies "ooohhh wouldn't you want to knowww? lol :)"...and then she says she's doing the same as me plus she says "im working on a bio lab but im losing interest"...Did she want me to come over to her room?

She's interested...... hang out with her, drink a little bit and see how it goes. If she's still biting, fuvk her



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Pimp-sicle said:
She's interested...... hang out with her, drink a little bit and see how it goes. If she's still biting, fuvk her



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Alright...I thought so...The next step I want to take is to never ask these kinds of questions anymore because in the future I want to just have the confidence to do something right away instead of coming on here and asking to make sure. Nonetheless, thanks!
 
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