"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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was this a clear IOI?

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a different girl i approached i started talking to as she was walking with her friend who wanted to take her outside for a cigarette/keep her company..

i started going into material then suddenly her b1tch friend tried to c0ckblock me by saying 'can i take her outside for a cigarette' shes such a b1tch but the 1 i was gaming turned to her friend and said 'no u go' cos she wanted to talk to me.. that's a clear IOI right?

her friend was coming in trying to save her but she resisted..

however when i went for the number close got her number just as i was saving her name in my phone her friend came back and must have said something to her friend cos i sensed she didn't like me very much and was badmouthing me..
 

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You gotta win over their friends. Its important.
 
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Her friend saw you two talking. She assumed you were creeping on her, so she tried to help her friend out by taking her away.

This chick you were talking to was actually interested in talking to you, so yes she let her friend know that it's all good.

Women do this all the time.
 
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but her friend was with her when i started talking to her, she was on her way for a cigarette.. she tried to grab her away, she was such a b1tch.. even after the number close and we went back to class her friend was being a bit stand offish to me..
 
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