"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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was this a clear IOI?

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a different girl i approached i started talking to as she was walking with her friend who wanted to take her outside for a cigarette/keep her company..

i started going into material then suddenly her b1tch friend tried to c0ckblock me by saying 'can i take her outside for a cigarette' shes such a b1tch but the 1 i was gaming turned to her friend and said 'no u go' cos she wanted to talk to me.. that's a clear IOI right?

her friend was coming in trying to save her but she resisted..

however when i went for the number close got her number just as i was saving her name in my phone her friend came back and must have said something to her friend cos i sensed she didn't like me very much and was badmouthing me..
 

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You gotta win over their friends. Its important.
 
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Her friend saw you two talking. She assumed you were creeping on her, so she tried to help her friend out by taking her away.

This chick you were talking to was actually interested in talking to you, so yes she let her friend know that it's all good.

Women do this all the time.
 
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but her friend was with her when i started talking to her, she was on her way for a cigarette.. she tried to grab her away, she was such a b1tch.. even after the number close and we went back to class her friend was being a bit stand offish to me..
 
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