Was there ever "that moment"?

[The Comeback Kid]

Has there ever been one particular low moment that caused you to change for the better (like from and AFC to a DJ)?

If you are confused by the question, here is my example...

For me, it was last year's Homecoming Dance. At the time, I was a nervous-as-h*ll Junior. It was the first Homecoming Dance I went to. It was such a dark moment for me in my mind - I was waaay too nervous to dance (I'm not real good at it anyway lol), ZERO girls approached me (but they did approach my friends - right in front of me!) and I spent the entire dance terrified. There was more things that weren't too good that also occured (mainly with the whole nervous/stiff thing).

This moment has remained in my mind ever since, and it hurts to even think about it. However, this moment changed my life for the better. After the dance, I was so angered/frustrated that I started to become more confident in my abilities and I borke out of my shyness shell. I just keep saying to myself "I don't want this to ever happen again."

My Homecoming Dance this year is tonight. Hopefully, the "new me" will emerge and I will have a better time.

So, has there been any one moment (particularly low) that has caused u to appraoch things differently in terms of girls AND made you think "change is needed"?

 

[.illadelph]

every failure that i have, i use it as my gas for the next time. that is my motivation to change things in future scenarios...

my homecoming dance is tonight as well...this will be my first dance ever, and i'm up for it. i'm pretty excited....

 

[The Comeback Kid]

I think last night and the HC dance has motivted me to becoming a DJ and getting some better results.

POST ON LAST NIGHT:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=86905

 

[dirtyvibe]

yeah, when i started lifting weights, believe it or not. i just felt really good

 

[The Antichrist_Star]

The day the girl I would have sold my soul for told me (on my bed) that I needed to get a life...

I did...

AS

 

[WesCottII]

For me it began with a girl.....

I adored that girl, but she never liked me back "I'd rather be your friend, because if we started going out, then split up I'd nver see you again" So I became one of her best girlfriends. I got to listen to her sex stories.....about the guy she blew off in a park.....about the sex in a hot-tub. I was a loyal friend, then one day she had a go at me for looking out for her. So I thought "**** this" and went after her sister.....she f*cked with me and my emotion, so I f*cked her sister.