"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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was so close to getting a booty call last night ( funny story)

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i met this girl threw some friends and she is a party girl. i wouldn't say that in a bad way but she isn't shy.

i added her to facebook. She was fun to be around when i go out with my friends. (you know.. when you go out with your friends and you DON'T game.) so i added her and started chatting with her.

so last night i was doing school work and procrastinating on facebook. i saw she liked one of my comments i made in one of my statuses. so as i do. i had to call her out as my stalker.

she starts defending her self as she would then i just go off on some tangent. i don't even care lol.

we get to talking and she tells me she was at the nickelback concert. ( she lost street cred for that) and i pay her out for that after awhile she's all up on me, like " hahaha i like you, your so funny." at this point i was like. great! come over. she couldn't because she was going to drinks with her friends..

so i just told her to message me if she wanted to party later. ( thinking yeah right this will never happen)

so i go to bed with tired eyes after doing a **** load of work and not going to the club.

wake up this morning log into facebook, and i have a message, it's her " r u awake?" message sent at 4:30 am.

i'm sure there is an unlucky brain meme in there somewhere... but i need my sleep so will just sent it up for tonight. i sent a message back like.. " i stayed up to 4:29 but i was tired so i went to bed"

see how it goes. so that's my funny story.. i didn't really think that ****y and funny really worked. but she went from cold to warm on me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sounds good. Only good looking guys are considered "funny" to women, so take that as an IOI.

The thing I would do differently is try to move her from Faycebhoke to texting. Text messaging is more direct and personal. Plus you are less likely to miss it when she contacts you.
 
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Mike32ct said:
Sounds good. Only good looking guys are considered "funny" to women, so take that as an IOI.

The thing I would do differently is try to move her from Faycebhoke to texting. Text messaging is more direct and personal. Plus you are less likely to miss it when she contacts you.
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yeah i was thinking about this, though it was AFTER i got the IOI. i really didn't think she had any interest in me.

i'll wait till later tonight and see if i can't get the number.. then try for next weekend. since it's Sunday and i have a **** tom of work to do.

i feel pretty good now you said that " only good looking guys are considered funny" cos, i mostly didn't think i am good looking. but maybe i am.
 
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What I mean is she has to find you attractive (on some level) to find you funny. You don't have to be universally hot to all women.

Hamster brains aren't good at humor. They just filter it through a guy's looks/attractiveness and respond accordingly.
 
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yeah.. i don't know why i though you meant on the looks department. though.. looks don't matter anyway.

just had a short convo with her now and already got her number.. gunna do some school work now and text her later
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mike32ct said:
Back to the OP:

Good job getting the number.
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thanks. texted her was good.

was watching the new epp of new girl. she got inpatient and sent me like 3 messages before i replied lol.

so it's good. she sent me some crappy message so i'm not going to reply. will reopen on wensday or so if i remember.

what do you mean about the looks myth? i only said it because i miss interpreted your first message.
 
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why would she have to message you through FB though? when are you gonna get the digits from her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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omega05 said:
why would she have to message you through FB though? when are you gonna get the digits from her?
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read the thread -_-
 
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eh you didnt put it in the OP but i see you got her number from later replies
 
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your right though man.. i could have dropped my number when i told her to message me later and i could have mamybe been woken by that and maybe played it off. though it was 4 am. so. i don't think anything would have happend
 
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