"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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was she messing with me

cablecow15

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ok im friends with this ugly chick and she has a hot
friend that im interested in we were talking and the
ugly chick said i liked her and she made a kinda
flatterd or embarresed face and said i feel special
now then the ugly friend said i liked her as a friend and
she said she still felt special. is she kidding i thought she was
but she said it like she meant it. oh and scince im friends with the ugly friend should i try to get her to help me out
i not so sure about asking women for help on this stuff
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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komplex

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Originally posted by cablecow15
ok im friends with this ugly chick and she has a hot
friend that im interested in we were talking and the
ugly chick said i liked her and she made a kinda
flatterd or embarresed face and said i feel special
now then the ugly friend said i liked her as a friend and
she said she still felt special. is she kidding i thought she was
but she said it like she meant it. oh and scince im friends with the ugly friend should i try to get her to help me out
i not so sure about asking women for help on this stuff
NOOOO don't ask for help from the ugly chick. the ugly chick KNOWS most guys dont' want her, and you might offend her by transmitting interest in her hot friend, and she won't want to help you because this is what MOST GUYS do. You don't wanna be most guys.

Next time you're with them both, act disinterested in the hot girl, be C&F with her, and have more of a conversation with the ugly girl... this will trigger a "hey this is odd, most guys pay attention to me not her" feeling, and she'll try to get your attention.

Don't take this advice to the extreme and completely IGNORE the hot girl... chances are if you do that, she will know that you are purposely ignoring her because you're scared or something. BUST ON THE HOT GIRL, but disarm the ugly one by keeping the convo cool with her.
 

cablecow15

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thats what i thought. one bad thing is that
she likes some other guy
and i think hes in 8th grade !WOW!
and ew
 

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Wow... are grade 8's even in highschool??

Anyways komplex has got the idea
 

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Please Puncuate your sentences properly.

it's all one big sentence, I can't tell what's really goin on.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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