Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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was she messing with me

cablecow15

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ok im friends with this ugly chick and she has a hot
friend that im interested in we were talking and the
ugly chick said i liked her and she made a kinda
flatterd or embarresed face and said i feel special
now then the ugly friend said i liked her as a friend and
she said she still felt special. is she kidding i thought she was
but she said it like she meant it. oh and scince im friends with the ugly friend should i try to get her to help me out
i not so sure about asking women for help on this stuff
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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komplex

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Originally posted by cablecow15
ok im friends with this ugly chick and she has a hot
friend that im interested in we were talking and the
ugly chick said i liked her and she made a kinda
flatterd or embarresed face and said i feel special
now then the ugly friend said i liked her as a friend and
she said she still felt special. is she kidding i thought she was
but she said it like she meant it. oh and scince im friends with the ugly friend should i try to get her to help me out
i not so sure about asking women for help on this stuff
NOOOO don't ask for help from the ugly chick. the ugly chick KNOWS most guys dont' want her, and you might offend her by transmitting interest in her hot friend, and she won't want to help you because this is what MOST GUYS do. You don't wanna be most guys.

Next time you're with them both, act disinterested in the hot girl, be C&F with her, and have more of a conversation with the ugly girl... this will trigger a "hey this is odd, most guys pay attention to me not her" feeling, and she'll try to get your attention.

Don't take this advice to the extreme and completely IGNORE the hot girl... chances are if you do that, she will know that you are purposely ignoring her because you're scared or something. BUST ON THE HOT GIRL, but disarm the ugly one by keeping the convo cool with her.
 

cablecow15

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thats what i thought. one bad thing is that
she likes some other guy
and i think hes in 8th grade !WOW!
and ew
 

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Wow... are grade 8's even in highschool??

Anyways komplex has got the idea
 

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Please Puncuate your sentences properly.

it's all one big sentence, I can't tell what's really goin on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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