"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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was she messing with me

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ok im friends with this ugly chick and she has a hot
friend that im interested in we were talking and the
ugly chick said i liked her and she made a kinda
flatterd or embarresed face and said i feel special
now then the ugly friend said i liked her as a friend and
she said she still felt special. is she kidding i thought she was
but she said it like she meant it. oh and scince im friends with the ugly friend should i try to get her to help me out
i not so sure about asking women for help on this stuff
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by cablecow15
ok im friends with this ugly chick and she has a hot
friend that im interested in we were talking and the
ugly chick said i liked her and she made a kinda
flatterd or embarresed face and said i feel special
now then the ugly friend said i liked her as a friend and
she said she still felt special. is she kidding i thought she was
but she said it like she meant it. oh and scince im friends with the ugly friend should i try to get her to help me out
i not so sure about asking women for help on this stuff
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NOOOO don't ask for help from the ugly chick. the ugly chick KNOWS most guys dont' want her, and you might offend her by transmitting interest in her hot friend, and she won't want to help you because this is what MOST GUYS do. You don't wanna be most guys.

Next time you're with them both, act disinterested in the hot girl, be C&F with her, and have more of a conversation with the ugly girl... this will trigger a "hey this is odd, most guys pay attention to me not her" feeling, and she'll try to get your attention.

Don't take this advice to the extreme and completely IGNORE the hot girl... chances are if you do that, she will know that you are purposely ignoring her because you're scared or something. BUST ON THE HOT GIRL, but disarm the ugly one by keeping the convo cool with her.
 
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thats what i thought. one bad thing is that
she likes some other guy
and i think hes in 8th grade !WOW!
and ew
 
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Wow... are grade 8's even in highschool??

Anyways komplex has got the idea
 
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Please Puncuate your sentences properly.

it's all one big sentence, I can't tell what's really goin on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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