So I was at the club on Friday hanging out with my friends and we met up with some girls. One of them asked why I wasn't dressed up and I said I'm a black guy dressed as a white guy (I was not being serious). She gave me a hi-five and I walked away tks catch up with my buddy. Later that night when the place is closing she walked up to me and told me since I was a white guy dressed as a black guy I should take off my shirt. It was a plaid shirt. Was she making fun?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
was she making fun of my shirt
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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..... no she probably wanted to see you shirtless and eventually fvxk you. You missed your move . Should've said " you take yours off first 
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That's a clown question bro.lili19771 said:
But seriously, she was obviously hitting on you.
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Purefilth said:
Haha I love that thread . Link it to him
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.