So I was at the club on Friday hanging out with my friends and we met up with some girls. One of them asked why I wasn't dressed up and I said I'm a black guy dressed as a white guy (I was not being serious). She gave me a hi-five and I walked away tks catch up with my buddy. Later that night when the place is closing she walked up to me and told me since I was a white guy dressed as a black guy I should take off my shirt. It was a plaid shirt. Was she making fun?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
was she making fun of my shirt
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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..... no she probably wanted to see you shirtless and eventually fvxk you. You missed your move . Should've said " you take yours off first 
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Add to biggest come-ons that were missed thread in the archives :crackup:
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That's a clown question bro.lili19771 said:
But seriously, she was obviously hitting on you.
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Purefilth said:
Haha I love that thread . Link it to him
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.