Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Was I wrong to make her pinky promise?

The_Reaper

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Summary:

1. Met a girl (Niamh) who was with a group of friends on holiday in my city, and Banged her, after a few days and some powerful LMR.
2. She was laid back and cool, but very attracted. I was sleeping with her for a week. The last night before she left for home, she recommended I "try it on with Amy" (another girl in the group who was attracted to me). I though it was a test of some kind. I said, "nah, I'm not interested".
3. I Banged Amy
4. Said to her "Don't tell Niamh, it wouldn't seem right". I made her pinky promise, while the jizz was still drying on her face.
5. Now, I feel a bit weird about it. Amy emails me every few days, and she's super cool, and very, very attracted to me

Should I tell her I was wrong to make her promise not to tell the other girl about us?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CrazyandLazy

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Should I tell her I was wrong to make her promise not to tell the other girl about us?

no don't bring it up
 
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