"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Was I wrong to make her pinky promise?

The_Reaper

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Summary:

1. Met a girl (Niamh) who was with a group of friends on holiday in my city, and Banged her, after a few days and some powerful LMR.
2. She was laid back and cool, but very attracted. I was sleeping with her for a week. The last night before she left for home, she recommended I "try it on with Amy" (another girl in the group who was attracted to me). I though it was a test of some kind. I said, "nah, I'm not interested".
3. I Banged Amy
4. Said to her "Don't tell Niamh, it wouldn't seem right". I made her pinky promise, while the jizz was still drying on her face.
5. Now, I feel a bit weird about it. Amy emails me every few days, and she's super cool, and very, very attracted to me

Should I tell her I was wrong to make her promise not to tell the other girl about us?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CrazyandLazy

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Should I tell her I was wrong to make her promise not to tell the other girl about us?

no don't bring it up
 
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