"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Was I wrong to make her pinky promise?

The_Reaper

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Summary:

1. Met a girl (Niamh) who was with a group of friends on holiday in my city, and Banged her, after a few days and some powerful LMR.
2. She was laid back and cool, but very attracted. I was sleeping with her for a week. The last night before she left for home, she recommended I "try it on with Amy" (another girl in the group who was attracted to me). I though it was a test of some kind. I said, "nah, I'm not interested".
3. I Banged Amy
4. Said to her "Don't tell Niamh, it wouldn't seem right". I made her pinky promise, while the jizz was still drying on her face.
5. Now, I feel a bit weird about it. Amy emails me every few days, and she's super cool, and very, very attracted to me

Should I tell her I was wrong to make her promise not to tell the other girl about us?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CrazyandLazy

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Should I tell her I was wrong to make her promise not to tell the other girl about us?

no don't bring it up
 
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