"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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was I used? im not sure if she is interested

BongDuy

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So there is this big party event for my fraternity, and it's invite only. this girl, who we will call Renee, starts heavily flirting with me two weeks before the event. at first i didn't want to take her, because i had another girl in mind, but because my plans didn't work out, i ended up taking her.

Before taking her, I hooked up with her, but didn't really get a chance to escalate more than making out.

Last night was the event, and we went out to a club, with an open bar, so everyone got **** faced. the beginning of the night while we are waiting for the buses to take us to the club, she starts crying( why? i have no clue), and i hold her and she ends up drinking a fvck ton before we even get on the party bus to take us to the club. while we are on the bus, we hook up a bit, and her legs are on mine, so im going crazy with the kino, touching everywhere but her vagina. that's the only spot she would NOT let me touch all night.

At the club, we get hot and heavy. serious grinding, she gives me a lap dance, and we are hooking up. all my friends are giving me mad props for getting some serious PDA ( public display of affection ) and it's great. suddenly, she says she will be right back, and she is dancing on other dudes.

At first i'm not bothered at all, because its not like we went together as boyfriend and girlfriend, or something, because i ended up dancing with a lot of different girls that night, but Renee, was the only girl I hooked up with that night. Later that evening, I hear from a good friend of mine that she was hooking up with some other dudes. At the club, she would come grind on me, leave, find another girl, grind with him, and try to find me to grind with me again. I honestly felt a tiny bit disrespected, so i would ditch her and what not, so i wasn't so clingy to one girl.

By the time we went to take the party bus back, She was exhausted, and did not want to have sex. but we did make out abunch on the way back

My question was, Was did she use me just to go to the party? Or should i try to pursue her when she is sober and keep pushing through her last minute resistance
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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scribblec

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lol while u were kissing her on the bus back she was sucking some other guys dude in the club

sorry bro




it was an open bar all the girls must of been mad drunk there why did u only end up with her?!?
 

Pierce

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Why would you kiss a girl after she had been kissing other dudes the same day.... That's homo bro.
 

Tiguere

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Pierce said:
Why would you kiss a girl after she had been kissing other dudes the same day.... That's homo bro.
what an immature statement.
 

Pierce

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who wants to kiss a girl that has been kissing other guys minutes before?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pierce

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That's reasonable. Has she been talking to you since the party?
 
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