"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Was I too ****y/rude?

gimmeyofonenumba

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today was the 2nd day of class, gym class. Girl had been smiling at me while exercising, so I went over there said something like "wow you've been on this thing all day" (she was on it for a while)her reaction was kinda like "*fake laugh* ya i know. Then she asks me "im doing 150 right" and I responded "no your doing 50, you got all excited didnt ya" and she responded kinda positive and dramatic. But then she just finishes and says ok im done and leaves. lol, a few minutes later i had the feeling i was a lil too rude, she isnt that hot but has a lot of guys staring at her bodacious bod(really nice ass). Im somewhat muscular, so I wonder if that compared with my responses and her not-so-hotness had a disadvantage. Next time i see her should i just be more charismatic/nice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
today was the 2nd day of class, gym class. Girl had been smiling at me while exercising, so I went over there said something like "wow you've been on this thing all day" (she was on it for a while)her reaction was kinda like "*fake laugh* ya i know. Then she asks me "im doing 150 right" and I responded "no your doing 50, you got all excited didnt ya" and she responded kinda positive and dramatic. But then she just finishes and says ok im done and leaves. lol, a few minutes later i had the feeling i was a lil too rude, she isnt that hot but has a lot of guys staring at her bodacious bod(really nice ass). Im somewhat muscular, so I wonder if that compared with my responses and her not-so-hotness had a disadvantage. Next time i see her should i just be more charismatic/nice?
It's imperative that you smile and have energy if you're going to be ****y/funny. Otherwise, you'll come off as a jerk. Make sure she knows you're playing around. I wouldn't go so far as to totally reverse your personality around her the next time you two happen to see each other, but try to understand how she might perceive your well-intended comments.
 

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fbplayer06 said:
It's imperative that you smile and have energy if you're going to be ****y/funny. Otherwise, you'll come off as a jerk. Make sure she knows you're playing around. I wouldn't go so far as to totally reverse your personality around her the next time you two happen to see each other, but try to understand how she might perceive your well-intended comments.
good reply man. Your well spoken for your age. I was smiling after everything i said, as was she.
 
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