"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Was I too harsh?

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A lot has happened since I made that 'asexual' thread. I met this chick and we liked each other from the beginning. Since I can develop oneitis quickly, I didn't call her for a couple days. In fact, I wasn't going to call her again at all. Anyway, she calls me Saturday (caught me off guard) and asks what I'm doing later. Basically, I told her that I was busy but we could meet up in the evening.

Anyway, she wanted to talk on the phone even after I said I'm busy, so I said "if you want to meet up with me later today, you gotta stop talking. I'm busy."

Her response was "ok, well call me before you leave".

We met up, had sex, and I don't even think it matters. But was what I said too harsh? Normally, I don't say things like that but I tend not to care about stuff like that anymore. I've been doing and saying what I want since my all time low a couple weeks ago.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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if you ended up having sex with her anyways then who cares?
 
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nonameok said:
Anyway, she wanted to talk on the phone even after I said I'm busy, so I said "if you want to meet up with me later today, you gotta stop talking. I'm busy."

Her response was "ok, well call me before you leave".

We met up, had sex, and I don't even think it matters. But was what I said too harsh?
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Right method, wrong technique.

"if you want to meet up with me later today, you gotta stop talking. I'm busy."- NO GOOD.

"I apologize but I have to leave you now. Perhaps we could meet up tonight for dinner."

With what you said, you are putting her down and telling her you are more important than her. Some girls like it, but generally, you shouldn't do that.
 
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