“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Was I too harsh?

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A lot has happened since I made that 'asexual' thread. I met this chick and we liked each other from the beginning. Since I can develop oneitis quickly, I didn't call her for a couple days. In fact, I wasn't going to call her again at all. Anyway, she calls me Saturday (caught me off guard) and asks what I'm doing later. Basically, I told her that I was busy but we could meet up in the evening.

Anyway, she wanted to talk on the phone even after I said I'm busy, so I said "if you want to meet up with me later today, you gotta stop talking. I'm busy."

Her response was "ok, well call me before you leave".

We met up, had sex, and I don't even think it matters. But was what I said too harsh? Normally, I don't say things like that but I tend not to care about stuff like that anymore. I've been doing and saying what I want since my all time low a couple weeks ago.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if you ended up having sex with her anyways then who cares?
 
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nonameok said:
Anyway, she wanted to talk on the phone even after I said I'm busy, so I said "if you want to meet up with me later today, you gotta stop talking. I'm busy."

Her response was "ok, well call me before you leave".

We met up, had sex, and I don't even think it matters. But was what I said too harsh?
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Right method, wrong technique.

"if you want to meet up with me later today, you gotta stop talking. I'm busy."- NO GOOD.

"I apologize but I have to leave you now. Perhaps we could meet up tonight for dinner."

With what you said, you are putting her down and telling her you are more important than her. Some girls like it, but generally, you shouldn't do that.
 
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