Was i played?

[Essa Rios]

So there is this cute asian girl who is always see at the gym the same time that i go. I always see her but don't approach as i've read its not cool to pick up chicks at gym.

Yesterday while i was using the bench press she walks up to me and asked to borrow 3bucks to buy a snack as she was hungry. Kinda caught me off guard but i used this opening to introduce myself plus ask her name as well.
I lend her the cash and she promise to pay me back next time she see's me.


Today i saw her again so i walk up to her and said "Hello" and hoping to talk to her as well. She gives me a half smile and continues her workout completely ignoring me so i walk away like a loser.
So i go about doing my workout but little pissed off but i do not show it.
Later i run into her at the water fountain but she does not acknowledge me at all.

If she would of been cool with me from the start i would not have taken the money if she had tried to pay me back. But she has made no attempt so
my question is should i walk up to her and ask for my 3 bucks back. I know it sounds silly but she is acting like a bit*h. Thoughts????

 

[Tiguere]

Ask for your 3 bucks back. Tell her you are hungry and you forgot the wallet in your car.

 

[Igetit!]

So there is this cute asian girl who is always see at the gym the same time that i go. I always see her but don't approach as i've read its not cool to pick up chicks at gym.

It's not cool to pick up chicks at the gym? ....where did you read that at?

Yesterday while i was using the bench press she walks up to me and asked to borrow 3bucks to buy a snack as she was hungry. Kinda caught me off guard but i used this opening to introduce myself plus ask her name as well.
I lend her the cash and she promise to pay me back next time she see's me.

So she just walks up to you out of the blue and asks for money?

Did she talk to you a little first,or did she just say "hi" and ask for the money?

Today i saw her again so i walk up to her and said "Hello" and hoping to talk to her as well. She gives me a half smile and continues her workout completely ignoring me so i walk away like a loser.
So i go about doing my workout but little pissed off but i do not show it.
Later i run into her at the water fountain but she does not acknowledge me at all.

So all of this happened the next day,the day after you lend her the money.


So what happened right after you lent her the money? Did she just say thank you,then walk away without speaking to you again?

my question is should i walk up to her and ask for my 3 bucks back.

Uhh.....YEAH.


What are you doing giving out your money to STRANGERS to begin with?


Your question was whether you were played or not.


Yes,you were played,but not this girl.



You played YOURSELF.

 

[Diaforetikos]

Stick a quarter up yo as* cuz you just played yo'self! Like a good arcade machine!

 

[Captain]

Ask for your 3 bucks back. Tell her you are hungry and you forgot the wallet in your car.

He doesn't need for an excuse to ask for HIS money back.

Tell her she owes you lunch.

 

[DanelMadr]

You should be more assertive man. Smile but tell her: "O.K. very funny. Give me my money back."

But there is always the possibility that:

a) She is some hard core leech and she is used to get away with it. She always uses guys who stare at her all night long and don't make a move.

b) You know how east Asian people look all the same to us? Well, maybe she is not that girl, who steal your money, dude

Take care esse

 

[marinetti]

yeah man, sounds more like you played yourself by trying to play it cool instead of just being a regular person, saying hi when you recognize her, and asking for your money back.

Why did you give her 3 bucks in the first place? You'd never talked to her before... You could've at least asked her name in return for the money, or bought her the food herself so you would've had time to talk to her...

 

[Dr. Know]

"Yesterday while i was using the bench press she walks up to me and asked to borrow 3bucks to buy a snack as she was hungry."

No, but I'm kinda horny, can you give me a *******?

 

[L B]

Learn from this and not make the same mistake again. Never give money to women, especially if they have not earned it. Would you give money if she were fat and ugly? Looks like she has probably done it many times before and have always gotten away with it. You are just one of many victims.

 

[Ascyus]

So there is this cute asian girl who is always see at the gym the same time that i go. I always see her but don't approach as i've read its not cool to pick up chicks at gym.

Yesterday while i was using the bench press she walks up to me and asked to borrow 3bucks to buy a snack as she was hungry. Kinda caught me off guard but i used this opening to introduce myself plus ask her name as well.
I lend her the cash and she promise to pay me back next time she see's me.


Today i saw her again so i walk up to her and said "Hello" and hoping to talk to her as well. She gives me a half smile and continues her workout completely ignoring me so i walk away like a loser.
So i go about doing my workout but little pissed off but i do not show it.
Later i run into her at the water fountain but she does not acknowledge me at all.

If she would of been cool with me from the start i would not have taken the money if she had tried to pay me back. But she has made no attempt so
my question is should i walk up to her and ask for my 3 bucks back. I know it sounds silly but she is acting like a bit*h. Thoughts????

man that is so hilarious thank you for the laugh. If only you needed the money and she lent it to you and you did the same to her, it would drive her crazy! i so want to do this!