Help Me out here please. I was after this woman that I work with for some time. We was kind of work friends at first we would eat lunch together every day hang out at work. Well one day she tells me that she wants me but she has a boyfriend and I told her I want her also. So after that everything changed she would flirt with me all the time hang out around me invited me to parties at her house bought me a birthday gift etc. Her birthday was a week after mine so since she got me something I thought I should get her something so I tried to buy her lunch she would NOT let me!!!!! I would sometimes have no money so she tried to buy me lunch. So I guess she was not a gold digger not that I have money anyway. Some of the other things that she did was mirror me I would catch her watching me when I was not looking. She would kind of take care of me look out for me and stick up for me when my boss would complain about me. One thing is she stayed with her boyfriend but he supports her and I can't so I don't know if that has anything to do with anything or not. Also I tried to kiss her and she rejected me "told me not where people can see us". Also one more thing she would do was come over to my office all the time to see me she would make up some kind of stupid question to ask me. I would tell her to bring me breakfast in the morning and she did. This is stupid but hey it work,,I was walking around a mall with her and I noticed my shoe was untied so I pointed to it and she bent over and tied my shoe for me LOL.
This other chick that works with me today told me that this woman played me. She said she just had a mock relationship with me to make her feel good about herself when her and her boyfriend was fighting. She said woman have to hear you tell them you like them, which I know but can any guy who looks like HeII still tell them they like a woman and it would still make them happy? I then asked her why did she do all those things for me then and she said she thinks it's because some people want a lover and a person to take care of them.
I think this is a little odd because if somebody was going to play me and god knows it has happen to me before that she would not do all those things she did for me. What do you guys think?
This other chick that works with me today told me that this woman played me. She said she just had a mock relationship with me to make her feel good about herself when her and her boyfriend was fighting. She said woman have to hear you tell them you like them, which I know but can any guy who looks like HeII still tell them they like a woman and it would still make them happy? I then asked her why did she do all those things for me then and she said she thinks it's because some people want a lover and a person to take care of them.
I think this is a little odd because if somebody was going to play me and god knows it has happen to me before that she would not do all those things she did for me. What do you guys think?
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