Was I played or not?

[itstough]

Originally posted by penkitten
rule of thumb....
if you find yourself asking if you were played, then you were without a doubt.
trust your inner voice, it may be insane but it doesnt lie to you.

HeII my inner voice is telling me she didn't play me one minute then the next it is telling me different. I asked here before if she was an attnetion ho and I was told no. All I would like to know is
1. If she did play me why did she do this stuff to be cruel?
2. Why did she do all those extra things for me? Somebody said to buy my attention is my attention worth that much that she wants to buy it???
3. So her telling me that she liked me was a total lie????
4. Should I ever speak to her again?

If the girl has sexual interest in you and starts touching you suggestively - then she's not playing you

Well she did sexualy touch me a couple of times She grabbed my coxk, grabbed my butt

 

[DEKKA]

sounds like you're full of sh!t.

 

[penkitten]

whose full of it?

 

[itstough]

Will somebody PLEASE help me out? WHY DID SHE DO ALL THOSE EXTRA THINGS FOR ME, like bring me food , look out for me , take care of me,etc? Somebody said to buy my attention is my attention worth that much to her that she wants to buy it? Why did she mirror me? Whats the bottom line here. Did she have no intention what so ever to be with me or at least have me as a back up plan??

 

[OpenMind]

some men get desparate and pay women for sex or they set a chick up for a booty call... looks like this chick has a boyfriend to take care of her physical needs since a woman doesn't have to pay for sex.. when a woman starts buying you gifts and paying for lunch when you go out and does little things for you then she may be trying to set you up as her "emotional" booty call.. she may not be lying when she said she likes you, but that doesn't mean anything.. she has a boyfriend and you work with her.. sounds to me like trouble... let it go.. find another chick.. good luck!

 

[mongoose]

it seems like you don't believe all the good advice your getting from your fellow DJ's. this is what you should do:

pursue her to your AFC hearts desire.

when she gets on better terms with her BF and rips your heart out, then you re-read this post. then post another titled 'she played me'.

come on man,

she has a BF.

you work with her.

you said she give your d!ck some hand action. ask her for some puzzy. see what her response is.

 

[itstough]

it seems like you don't believe all the good advice your getting from your fellow DJ's. :

I NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SAID I DON'T BELIEVE WHAT PEOPLE HERE ARE TELLING ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All I was asking NOW was why did she do all those extra things for me if she was playing me, and openmind answered it for me. Thanks Openmind! And whether or not she could of been confused or she played with me to be cruel, because I just can't get how she could be so cruel to somebody.


She no longer works with me anyways, besides I didn't do anything except tell her that I liked her. SHE is the one who touched me said stuff to me at work etc etc.

 

[OpenMind]

dont take it personally dude.. attention wh0res (female narcissists) dont play men to intentionally be cruel or hurt them.. it is part of their nature and they dont even realize what they are doing.. so just keep yourself emotionally detached from this one and stop asking yourself why she does all these things because the act of trying to figure these types of women out is part of their seduction... once you get sucked in you are done..and it will take a while including a lot of emotional pain to get out of their trap... good luck!