I recently dumped my girlfriend, whom I'd been dating for two years.
She had become a selfish,self absorbed immature silly girl, and I no longer wanted to be with her, she was making my life pretty miserable.
She was a really beautiful looking girl, the type that every guy looked at, but I think she thought that because she was pretty and attractive that she could get away with anything she wanted as every guy would supplicate to her because of her beauty.
I was determined not to be like her past boyfriends and not kiss her ass.
basically the final straw came when we had booked a holiday together and then at the last moment I find out that she's invited two of her pals, a guy and a girl along with us without even letting me know about it.
I found this totally disrespectful and immediatly told her I was no longer interested in being with her. The thing that dumbfounded me was that she told me that she didn't know she'd done anything wrong.
She then demanded that I tell her my exact reasons for dumping her.......so I did.
I told her that I found her to be immature, selfish, self absorbed, thoughless and totally insensitive.
She was pretty taken aback by what I had to say to her.
That was a month ago and I have made a point of not contacting her and moving on.
Its messed up because I actually did like this girl, for some strange reason all be it!, but do you guys think I was too harsh to tell her my exact reasons for ending it. I guess Im finding it hard to forget her, but Im trying my best to do that.
I guess I just needed to talk to other people about it, because I think I'm being labeled 'The Bas tard' by her and all her friends, because I had the 'nerve' to dump her.
I think she thought she was too beautiful to get dumped. I was the first guy to ever dump her (and she's 24yrs old, going on 25!!!)
She had become a selfish,self absorbed immature silly girl, and I no longer wanted to be with her, she was making my life pretty miserable.
She was a really beautiful looking girl, the type that every guy looked at, but I think she thought that because she was pretty and attractive that she could get away with anything she wanted as every guy would supplicate to her because of her beauty.
I was determined not to be like her past boyfriends and not kiss her ass.
basically the final straw came when we had booked a holiday together and then at the last moment I find out that she's invited two of her pals, a guy and a girl along with us without even letting me know about it.
I found this totally disrespectful and immediatly told her I was no longer interested in being with her. The thing that dumbfounded me was that she told me that she didn't know she'd done anything wrong.
She then demanded that I tell her my exact reasons for dumping her.......so I did.
I told her that I found her to be immature, selfish, self absorbed, thoughless and totally insensitive.
She was pretty taken aback by what I had to say to her.
That was a month ago and I have made a point of not contacting her and moving on.
Its messed up because I actually did like this girl, for some strange reason all be it!, but do you guys think I was too harsh to tell her my exact reasons for ending it. I guess Im finding it hard to forget her, but Im trying my best to do that.
I guess I just needed to talk to other people about it, because I think I'm being labeled 'The Bas tard' by her and all her friends, because I had the 'nerve' to dump her.
I think she thought she was too beautiful to get dumped. I was the first guy to ever dump her (and she's 24yrs old, going on 25!!!)