So, I'm traveling to another city for business. I tell a girl that I'm seeing where I'm going to be. She tells me that coincidentally she's going to be in the same city at the same time. She then says that "I can see you anytime" in our home city, and that she already has plans. We're not exclusive and I'm not upset that she had plans. Yet, the way she came across with the "I can see you anytime" felt like little slap in face, taking me for granted and made me want to say F - U , no you can't see me anytime you want. Am I being to sensitive & egotistical or was I disrespected and should I write her off?
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Was I disrespected?
- Thread starter robertj
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Master Don Juan
There's something you are leaving out here.
Did you ask her to hang out in that new city? Weird that she just straight up dissed you and said no, without you ever saying yes. If she did do that, I'd say look in the mirror and see if you are developing strong one-itis.
She already has plans in the other city.
You're not exclusive.
She thinks you're freely available at home city.
Show her you're not, stay busy and date other women.
It's not about disrespect, it's about her current mindset…
You're not exclusive.
She thinks you're freely available at home city.
Show her you're not, stay busy and date other women.
It's not about disrespect, it's about her current mindset…
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
she already has plans......(with another guy.)
So yes, that is disrespectful. Stop fvcking this woman before she gives you an STD.
So yes, that is disrespectful. Stop fvcking this woman before she gives you an STD.