So, I'm traveling to another city for business. I tell a girl that I'm seeing where I'm going to be. She tells me that coincidentally she's going to be in the same city at the same time. She then says that "I can see you anytime" in our home city, and that she already has plans. We're not exclusive and I'm not upset that she had plans. Yet, the way she came across with the "I can see you anytime" felt like little slap in face, taking me for granted and made me want to say F - U , no you can't see me anytime you want. Am I being to sensitive & egotistical or was I disrespected and should I write her off?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Was I disrespected?
- Thread starter robertj
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
There's something you are leaving out here.
Did you ask her to hang out in that new city? Weird that she just straight up dissed you and said no, without you ever saying yes. If she did do that, I'd say look in the mirror and see if you are developing strong one-itis.
She already has plans in the other city.
You're not exclusive.
She thinks you're freely available at home city.
Show her you're not, stay busy and date other women.
It's not about disrespect, it's about her current mindset…
You're not exclusive.
She thinks you're freely available at home city.
Show her you're not, stay busy and date other women.
It's not about disrespect, it's about her current mindset…
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
she already has plans......(with another guy.)
So yes, that is disrespectful. Stop fvcking this woman before she gives you an STD.
So yes, that is disrespectful. Stop fvcking this woman before she gives you an STD.