“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Was i blind and stupid?

christz

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Because i'm thinking I was.

OK here's the story

Me and friends are at the college dorms, partying it up. Then they go chris show is your magic on one of the girls here in the dorms. I'm like ok perfect time to test out my new DJ mindset.

They pick the girl an HB8 so i see her walking, doesn't pay me any mind and she walks into the computer lab.

well i go into the computer lab, sit down talk to her.. needless to say we broke out into a full on conversation about ****. I'm naturally a sarcastic guy. so the C+F was there. She laughed, asked me if i knew some peeps at the college i was going to.

My friends passed by a few times.. then one even came in and was like is he bothering you.

she looked at me and laughed and said no were having a conversation. ANYWAYS more time passes i think i was talkin with this girl for at least 20 or 30 minutes. Anyway my friends come back.. they're like chris were gonna go outside to have a smoke

I'm like cool, i'll be there she's like i'm gonna go down to, you should come so i'm like aiight, so i follow her to her dorm room and i was like so this is your room.

she's like yeah, but its messy so don't come in as she said smileing, and she pushed open the door and walked in but held it open for me.. I didn't go in LOL i figured she actually didn't want me to. Now that i think of it i think she kinda did.

Anyway we walk downstaires, she's smokeing my friends finish up smokeing they go back upstairs me and her start talking more outside.. then about another 20 minutes pass and my friends come down, they leave i stay. She's like well i gotta go back up to my room, and she paused.. i was like alright well i'll probably get outta here.. she's like ok cool and she put her arms out for a hug. so i hugged her.

I'm thinking i totally fuc*ed a perfectly good chance with a perfectly hot chick :(
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oda

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shut up man, be optomistic... you didn't do anything wrong. At worst she might just think she has to work a little more for your intimacy
 
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Originally posted by christz
Because i'm thinking I was.

OK here's the story

Me and friends are at the college dorms, partying it up. Then they go chris show is your magic on one of the girls here in the dorms. I'm like ok perfect time to test out my new DJ mindset.

They pick the girl an HB8 so i see her walking, doesn't pay me any mind and she walks into the computer lab.

well i go into the computer lab, sit down talk to her.. needless to say we broke out into a full on conversation about ****. I'm naturally a sarcastic guy. so the C+F was there. She laughed, asked me if i knew some peeps at the college i was going to.

My friends passed by a few times.. then one even came in and was like is he bothering you.

she looked at me and laughed and said no were having a conversation. ANYWAYS more time passes i think i was talkin with this girl for at least 20 or 30 minutes. Anyway my friends come back.. they're like chris were gonna go outside to have a smoke

I'm like cool, i'll be there she's like i'm gonna go down to, you should come so i'm like aiight, so i follow her to her dorm room and i was like so this is your room.

she's like yeah, but its messy so don't come in as she said smileing, and she pushed open the door and walked in but held it open for me.. I didn't go in LOL i figured she actually didn't want me to. Now that i think of it i think she kinda did.

Anyway we walk downstaires, she's smokeing my friends finish up smokeing they go back upstairs me and her start talking more outside.. then about another 20 minutes pass and my friends come down, they leave i stay. She's like well i gotta go back up to my room, and she paused.. i was like alright well i'll probably get outta here.. she's like ok cool and she put her arms out for a hug. so i hugged her.

I'm thinking i totally fuc*ed a perfectly good chance with a perfectly hot chick :(
all ur doing by posting about it is whining,
no good comes out of re-living ur mistakes, and u sure wont learn from it until you are in similar situation n do it right.
 
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Originally posted by oda
shut up man, be optomistic... you didn't do anything wrong. At worst she might just think she has to work a little more for your intimacy
can i get a shut the fnck up for christz !!:p
 

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over analyzing has got to be the number one confidence killer
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wiesman44

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Dude, there's a strong possibility you could have gotten that chick in to bed. But u have to look on the bright side. You approached her and chatted her up for 20 mins. Thats more than most guys would be able to do. So now your in good shape. Now the point is to get her to want to f#uck you instead of just be attracted to you.

Read up on some patterning skills, that will do the trick for ya.
 
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