Konada
Master Don Juan
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So I set up a date off Tinder a few days ago and this happened on the day of the date.
Me: Yo see you at xxx at 715pm later.
HB: Okay! What are we gonna do? Like go where eat or what?
Me: Just a simple coffee, dinner if we don't hate each other after coffee
HB: Ehh, shouldn't we just do dinner straight? Cause I'll meet you without dinner and feeling hungry uh
Me: Grab something small before that then
HB: So you mean we can't have conversation over dinner?
HB: You expect me to travel to town just to have coffee with you like this?
Me: Look, we can have dinner after that if we can click. If you're not okay with this then perhaps its better to call it off
HB: Alright, then I think we can just call it off.
HB: You're being inflexible and weird.
Me: Ok
Excuse the grammar because I'm not from the US. Decided to bin this one because she's acting b!tchy even before we meet.
I still do need honest opinion whether I was coming across as being an total assh0le for expressing that I wanted to test where it goes before investing further, certainly not blowing $20 on some chick I don't even know I like yet.
TL;DR
1. Suggested coffee and if we get along, dinner afterwards
2. Girl insists on dinner only
3. Breaks date because I didn't budge from my position.
Me: Yo see you at xxx at 715pm later.
HB: Okay! What are we gonna do? Like go where eat or what?
Me: Just a simple coffee, dinner if we don't hate each other after coffee
HB: Ehh, shouldn't we just do dinner straight? Cause I'll meet you without dinner and feeling hungry uh
Me: Grab something small before that then
HB: So you mean we can't have conversation over dinner?
HB: You expect me to travel to town just to have coffee with you like this?
Me: Look, we can have dinner after that if we can click. If you're not okay with this then perhaps its better to call it off
HB: Alright, then I think we can just call it off.
HB: You're being inflexible and weird.
Me: Ok
Excuse the grammar because I'm not from the US. Decided to bin this one because she's acting b!tchy even before we meet.
I still do need honest opinion whether I was coming across as being an total assh0le for expressing that I wanted to test where it goes before investing further, certainly not blowing $20 on some chick I don't even know I like yet.
TL;DR
1. Suggested coffee and if we get along, dinner afterwards
2. Girl insists on dinner only
3. Breaks date because I didn't budge from my position.
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